What Is A Perfecting Pastor?

Let me first tell you God is good! He knew what I was looking for I know you don't know me but that book touched my heart so much it was like God was talking to me and we were having a conversation. I have been with my boyfriend for just about 4yrs it's been a long distance relationship but we do see each other quite often. I explained to him that I wasn't going to live with him unless we were married. I explained to him that I didn't want him to call me wifey because that's an Honor and title I deserve once we say I DO!  We both have been married twice and both have been cheated on! I have talked to other women who didn't have a problem dating for years before they said I do and most of these women lived with their partner but I stand on morals I just can't do it. Bernard seems to not understand what the desires of my heart is and I literally had a come to Jesus moment reading your book. I'm not CRAZY!!! GOD INSTILLED THESE MORALS IN ME FOR A REASON. We did mutually agree to sustain from intimacy.  I know he loves me but that spark is slowly fading at times. Your book explains how I feel backed by scripture which I LOVE, SO THANK YOU FOR WRITING SUCH A INFORMATIVE BOOK! I NEEDED IT!  

UPDATE:

I have to tell you that my boo and I have had some real meaningful conversations since I read your book. I explained the things that have been lacking  and how I truly feel he actually took time out to analyze what went wrong and we discussed how to move forward so again THANK YOU!!! That's how I know he TRULY LOVES ME!  D.G